Roses Have Thorns, But Not Always

by | Feb 10, 2015

Even in laughter the heart may be in pain, And the end of joy may be grief. (Proverbs 14:13)

In the lobby of my church a sudden outburst of laughing will pound through my office walls.  At times I will look out just to see what is so funny.  And it is funny, what I see.  There may be two or maybe ten who are all enjoying a good story or the end of some tease.  But I know these people.  There is the one who is still recovering from surgery and has burdens for her family and their faith.  There is the one whose spouse is a broken person who brings so many burdens into the home and lives of the family.  There is that person whose job is currently up in the air and the reality of the unknown is upon him.  I see the parents laughing who has a wayward child and they are very concerned.

If I wanted to stop any of that laughter all I would need to do is pull one of them aside and inquire as to how is the situation, the burden.  Laughing eyes will reflect the burden and pain that is just below the surface.  Tears or anguished faces will appear and a softer, heavier voice will speak.

For all of us there are times of great laughter that hide the pain we suffer within.  It is the reality of living in this broken, sinful age.  We will hold in our arms a small baby and be filled with joy never knowing that the end will be grief.  We will walk down an aisle to marry only for the end to be grief.  We will start out our life in college and in the end is grief.

We must never forget that many things in this life bring joy.  And we can enjoy them as such.  But like the thorns of the rose so too do all things bringing joy.  So we hold things that belong to this age lightly.  Rejoicing in the times of joy and weeping with those who weep in grief.  We gather together on Sunday to hold up fists of rebellion to the gods of this age as we declare by faith that God the Father “. . . raised Him from the dead and seated Him at His right hand in the heavenly places, far above all rule and authority and power and dominion, and every name that is named, not only in this age but also in the one to come.” (Ephesians 1:20-21)

Jesus tells us that we will never taste the fullness of death, called the second death, if our hope is in Him alone.  Peter tells us we are kept safe by God’s power so that even if we have grief and sorrow we shall never be lost.  Paul tells us that by the great love of our heavenly Father we were forgiven and raised up with Jesus Christ in the heavenly places all because we are in union with His Son.

I need to remember this more each day.

And so do you.

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